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Posted on 03/22/2009

Greetings!

This is my first blog, and I will try to do my best to express about myself.

First off, I get along with males quite easy than females. Why? Females are always such drama queens, telling stories about their relationships what go wrong, always shopping and dislike being outdoorsy types.

With males, I understand how they feel in certain ways. I'm very open minded in a lot of ways. I listen if male talks with me. I like to be responded back, not ignored when I talk. There are times I wanted to go out hiking, camping, fishing, crabbing- no one wants to tag along, but sex! Sigh. This is not what I wanted when I want to do stuff with guys. Guys misunderstood me at times. I truly enjoy outdoorsy stuff.

Plus I enjoy being with animals. I respect animals. They have the right to be on this planet. They were here first before human gets here on this planet. Yes, I totally respect mother's nature. I don't hunt animals, this put me guilty conscious.

With hearing world, its hard to live through at times. I read lips and hear the voices at the same time. It gets very tiresome. I always wanted a male who do above what I wrote, and signs. Yes, I had been dated and realtionships with deaf males in the past, but something wasn't right. I need a male who is also intelligent, open minded and open heart. There was a deaf male friend, I just let him go. Why? Everytime I text or tried to communicate, I didn't get any response and he didn't want relationship. He was nice, but in fact, I didn't like being ignored for the whole month. I do not take any more excuses or lies. I had been with one deaf male when I had my child around. He couldn't handle it, so left me as a friend. It was sad, but it happened. Another deaf male who wasn't smart and over controlled by his mother. Sigh, not that again, please!

Please no mamma's boy, unintelligent, ignored my converstations when I need someone to talk with!

I did went out with hearing males, and it didn't really work out the best. There was a lot of miscommunications, and I had to teach them how to sign. It gets tiresome. I rather to have a man who knows signs without asking, "how do you sign this or that." I like to feel the comfortable level of communication.

Again, if you really want a commitment, just be sure you stick with commitments. If you want to be closer to me, I think that's awesome because I like to be closer with my man, so I will feel better and see daily if possible. If you wanted to travel alone, please do not bother me. I had a boyfriend who wanted to travel alone the world without me, then I feel left out. The fun of being together is left out and unbalance. If you have unfinished business, do not have me as a relationship.

I'm looking for someone who is willing to settle down with relationship and be commited to it, that's awesome. Please don't ever say, "you are the only one!" Just make sure you know what you are doing with me, and make sure you are willing to compromise to make it work together if you want me in your life for anything. If you want me to be there to support you as you are being there to support me, then that's fansastic! I do not like to be place on hold or have himself to replace with his friends to be there for me. I rather my man to be there for me and spend quality time. In the meantime, I love to cuddle, french kissing, holding hands, to tickle, do fun things together rather than just SEX all the time. I like to balance sex and doing other things like going out to met friends and families, I love that. If you want to be very private and wish not to share your life with me, then don't bother me at all. I like to do anything to spend my time with my man. My exboyfriend didn't do that. He was tooooo independence and wanting his own things and not having me to partipate, it made me very sad and unwanted. It puts me down.
Thank you.
Peace.



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Beauty_Nature
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Posted on 01/11/2010

I am no longer Freaky_furball, but changed to Beauty_Nature. Just for everybody's information. Have a nice day. :-)



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Posted on 09/12/2009

Hey I so get where you are coming from. I have the same problem with men. and i can hear. so its no different on the other side. I like camping hiking snorkeling and all kinds of stuff to. I have trouble getting along with woman for the same reason. and I to would like to find a guy who is intelligent. what i wouldnt give for some good conversation! and yes mommy boy need not apply ive had my fill of those. but if your ever in my area look me up we could hang out sometime. I think you sound like your pretty cool
Jeannie



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Posted on 08/15/2009

true, people just don't just get it at all. thanks for reading my blog



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Posted on 06/14/2009

i know what you are saying. its not easy. people just dont get it.



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Posted on 04/23/2009

i am hard of hearing... both my parents are Deaf and i know sign language..I like some of the stuff u like and i have kids too =) i like to talk to you more if ur interseted.


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